We live in an increasingly non-linear world. The choices are endless, exciting, right? Actually - it's mostly paralysing. I remember myself 5 years ago on the brink of leaving my corporate careeer. There were so many things I could do - travel the world, start a company, move countries, or all of that at the same time. I was in the state of paralysis for over 6 months.
What saved me from despair was Life Design. Which is esentially a very structured way of intentionally crafting your life based on proven principles. For an overthinker like myself it was the magic pill.
In today's post, I'd love to share with you what life design is, how it works and why you should absolutely give it a try.
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What is Life Design?
Let's start with the basics. What is Life Design?
It's a structured methodology that helps you create a personalized blueprint for your life. It borrows principles from design thinking, which is a method used by top innovators to solve complex problems (I used it to create strategies for Fortune 500 clients back in my consulting days). But instead of designing products or services, you’re designing something much more valuable—your future.
Think of it as treating your life like a series of prototypes. You try things, gather feedback, and tweak your course as you go. It’s flexible, creative, and centered around discovering what truly makes you happy and fulfilled.
Here is an example: Imagine you’re unsure whether to go after a career in marketing or social work. Instead of diving headfirst into one, you could design small experiments—like shadowing professionals in both fields, volunteering, or taking online courses to get a taste of each before making a big decision. Life Design is all about exploring, not just deciding. Cool, right?
Why Life Design Gets Popular in Today’s World
In 2024, we live in a time of unlimited options—career paths, lifestyle choices, side hustles, you name it. While this should feel liberating, it often has the opposite effect. We get paralyzed by choice.
This is exactly way Life Design becomes increasingly more popular - it brings clarity and sift through the options quickly and with the minimum amount of risk.
Think about the rise of the gig economy or the shift to remote work—these trends show how people are starting to design their own careers and lifestyles outside the traditional 9-to-5 model. Life Design is in tune with this new reality.
You don’t need to follow the "set path" anymore—you can build your own.
The Core Principles of Life Design
So, how does it all work? Let's dig in. Here are the key principles of Life Design:
Self-Discovery
The first step is to understand yourself—your values, passions, and what truly drives you. This is essentially the step where you get to know the user you are designing for - in this case it's you!
Prototyping Your Future
Instead of waiting for the "perfect" decision (which will never happen!), you can try different paths through small experiments. This might be as simple as attending a workshop, or even moving to a new city temporarily.
For example, if you've always dreamed of living abroad but don’t want to commit to a full move, you can try a digital nomad month where you work remotely from a different country. Once you give it a go, you will know how it feels for you, and so you can adjust from there.
Iterate and Adapt
The beauty of Life Design is that it’s not set in stone. You can continuously tweak and evolve your plan based on new insights. Life isn’t static—why should your life plan be?
Tip: Don’t be afraid to make changes. Most people wait for "certainty" before making decisions, but Life Design is all about embracing uncertainty and learning as you go.
How to Start Your Life Design Journey
Now, let’s get practical. How can you begin designing your life? Here are a few steps to help you start creating a plan for a more intentional, fulfilling future:
Identify Your North Star
Ask yourself: What do I value most in life? What kind of life do I want to build? These questions are your North Star, the guiding light that will keep you on track when life gets chaotic.
Example: If freedom is one of your core values, start designing a life that gives you more flexibility—whether it’s through remote work, freelancing, or creating passive income.
Brainstorm Possibilities
Write down all the things you’re curious about. Maybe it’s starting a business, learning a new skill, or even switching industries. Don’t filter your ideas—just get them down on paper.
Tip: Use mind-mapping to visualize how different ideas could connect or overlap.
Create a Life Plan
Break your ideas down into actionable steps. What can you try first? What’s a low-risk way to experiment with something new? For example, if you’re thinking about transitioning to a new career, you could start by freelancing on the side.
Tip: Don’t wait for the "right time." Life Design thrives on action. You can adjust and evolve as you go.
Leverage Technology
There are plenty of apps and digital tools that can help guide your Life Design process. For example, My Life Quest offers a structured 10-step framework for defining your life’s vision and continuously checking in to make sure you’re on the right path. By using tools like this, you gain clarity and direction as you experiment and adjust.
Example: Set up regular "life check-ins" using apps to assess your progress, track your goals, and make necessary adjustments to your plan.
Embrace Failure as Part of the Process
Life Design is not about getting it perfect—it’s about learning from your missteps. Each experiment brings valuable insights, whether it works out or not.
Example: Maybe you try out a new side hustle, and it doesn’t take off. Instead of seeing it as a failure, treat it as a learning experience. What can you take from it? What would you do differently next time?
Why My Life Quest is Your Life Design Companion
Designing your life can feel overwhelming at first. That’s why My Life Quest offers a powerful solution—a 10-step self-guided program that walks you through the Life Design process.
From helping you discover your true values and passions to designing and prototyping different life paths, My Life Quest is there every step of the way. Plus, with regular check-ins, you’ll always feel supported in staying on track with your life vision.
So, if you’re tired of living on autopilot and ready to take control of your future, why not give it a try?
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